Disable ShyLU_NodeTacho when RDC is not enabled with CUDA (#2580)
Created by: bartlettroscoe
CC: @trilinos/shylu
This also results in a hard failure if ShyLU_NodeTacho is explicitly enabled but RDC is not enabled. This just moved the configure error up earlier.
This also helps get us closer to #2464 (closed).
This addresses #2580 (closed).